Venus in Capricorn
There’s something to be said about Venus in Capricorn’s ability to both literally and existentially “age like fine wine”, thanks to ruling planet Saturn’s emphasis on long-term rewards gained over time. Those with Venus in Capricorn are probably familiar with the idea of patience and perseverance more so than any other Venus sign - patience regarding love, building friendship, physical attraction, and intimacy. These folks know that what’s truly and authentically good can only get better, and that love requires a commitment that is best nurtured over many experiences, ups and downs, and evolutions of mind, body and soul.
Much like Venus in Scorpio, there is an intensity, depth, and searing yet hidden sexuality to Venus in Capricorn that can be wildly attractive or intimidating to others, depending on the circumstances. With a cautious and apprehensive exterior, this Venus sign possesses a highly-skilled and intuitive bullshit detector, working to sniff out potential mates that simply don’t meet their particular standards. Venus in Capricorn ultimately knows what they want and are wary to settle for less, simply because when they commit themselves to a partner, they are unequivocally committed, through the good and the truly reprehensible. Loyalty and faithfulness are of the utmost importance to this Venus sign. With that being said, Venus in Capricorn is not above taking matters of fidelity into their own hands if they feel as though their partner is not upholding their end of the bargain in the relationship.
There is a beautiful unfolding of humor, sharp wit and warmth when Venus in Capricorn allows themselves to be open to love and relationships. This is a placement that can take others (pleasantly) by surprise. So much outpouring of creativity and connectedness here, yet only available to the lucky few it feels comfortable connecting with and being supported by. Comfort remains an important theme for Venus in Capricorn. There is an ongoing tug-of-war here in terms of sacrifice vs. comfort, endurance vs. relaxation, and commitment vs. rejection of responsibility. Venus in Capricorn is well-steeped in following tradition and abiding by the rules, but also feels a great sense of relief, and perhaps guilt, once they let their hair down and allow themselves to enjoy the luxury of a fulfilling relationship.
Venus in Capricorn might be open to casual and non-committed types of relationships, especially if they are early in their career or education. But ultimately, lifetime partnership is highly important to this Venus sign and carrying on a legacy they can be proud of matters immensely.
If you have this Venus placement, remain committed to upholding your standards in relationships. Wanting the best for your relationships, and wanting a partner that can match you intellectually and socially, is worth the time and sacrifice. Also, expect that your options for love and romance will improve with age and growth of experience. If you are interested in someone with this placement, believe in this mantra: “it gets better with time”.
